People are the most precious gifts on this earth. People come with hearts, spirits, souls, minds and bodies. Every aspect of them should be treated as a gift, a blessing. Don’t ever devalue yourself or others. Know that before others will treat you as you deserve, you must first treat yourself as such. If someone is treating you poorly, whether in a physical sense, spiritual sense, mental sense, or your heart–stand up for yourself, honor your worth, or if it or they aren’t worth your time then just opt right on out. You deserve to be treated like a gift, always. Treat others the same. You cannot expect to put negative out and receive positive back when it comes to beings. If you beat your dog every day when you come home, that one day will come when you go to raise your hand and they bite the living hell out of you. This is a behavior in reaction to the actions you have chosen. Life is a crazy cycle of what we put out there coming back around, so we must always put out the very best of ourselves. No one is perfect. People make mistakes. They screw up. It’s those of who learn from our wrongs, and do our best to not only right the wrongs, but to never again repeat them. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it a million times more- the saying goes- “do onto others as you’d want done onto you”. This is so simple and yet so very powerful.
This doesn’t mean that when you put 100% positive, that is all that will come back. Life is going to come with hards, with negatives, with losses, and honestly with some crap that just doesn’t make any sense at all. It happens. It’s part of life. But the same way those crazy make no sense difficult things can happen, in an instant those amazing make no sense or all the sense in the world things happen too. Blessings, miracles, goals, dreams, achievements; these are all things that happen everyday-some within our control; some that just happen…As always balance is there. At times when difficult things happen, things you worked hard for don’t come to fruition, goals aren’t met because of blockades you couldn’t control, or people just don’t turn out to be who you thought they were, this is when you have to learn to accept the things that aren’t in your control, and move forward… Staying stuck on someone or something that has no possibilities of forward movement, is just plain staying stuck. Forward is always the goal, even when it’s the tiniest of steps.
Wake up in the morning, look at yourself in the mirror, and like, love, and accept the amazing creature you see before you. It’s not about what you look like on the outside, thats just the shell that houses all the incredible that lives within you. Beauty radiates from within. It does not travel the other way around, lol. There’s some drop dead creatures walking around on the planet, but the minute you get to know them you find no beauty whatsoever living within. It’s sad, but true. And then there are people that maybe you’d never look twice at, and you get to know them, and they become one the most attractive people you’ve ever known.
No matter who you are, you are worthy, and you are a gift. If there is something you aren’t happy with, make today the day you change it. Whether it be a job, a person, a place or a thing, you are always in control of where you choose to stay as well as where you choose to go… Just as you are in control of whom you choose to stay with, fight for, wait for, hope change will come with etc… Reality is, if there is something you need to change about someone, then they aren’t the someone for you. Same goes for where you are, and what you are doing. You can always make a change… We cannot make another person change, but we most certainly can invoke change in this life…
Loving unconditionally means accepting a person, people, beings for exactly who they are. It doesn’t mean taking crap off anyone though. If you love some without conditions, and they don’t love you back the same, then it’s time to do some serious thinking about you want. People confuse unconditional love with the justification of being treated in a manner you don’t deserve, and accepting it, simply because you love them. Ask yourself this though, if they truly love you, would they treat you in such a way. Work on the things that can be worked on, change the things that can be changed, but accept people solely for who they are… and if who they are isn’t healthy for you, then make the changes best for YOU. If someone isn’t treating you the way you deserve, if you aren’t happy, then ask yourself why? Why spend time with someone who brings you unhappiness? Your time is as valuable as you are. Your heart certainly is.
When you extend your heart someone it should always be with every ounce of who you are. Love HUGE. Love like there is absolutely no tomorrow, and gift that love to someone who can’t imagine a tomorrow without you. Love isn’t perfect, it’s crazy, it’s emotional, it’s a roller coaster of amazing, it’s not meant to be tip toed into, it’s meant to go head speed with reckless abandonment. You don’t chose to love people, love choses. Haven’t you ever loved someone you really wished you didn’t? lol. Everyone’s had one of those relationships or friendships or even family members. Love is not a choice, it just exists. It’s easier than breathing. Breathing you have to think about sometimes, lol. Love can take your breath away, but the right love fills you with even greater a breath in return.
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